Rather than being decisive about the end or move of ABAD, I'm going to just say that ABAD is on a hiatus of undetermined length. I have enjoyed doing it, and I'm proud of my own commitment to posting almost every day for almost three and a half years, but my passion for it is touching the low water mark at the moment. There's no excuse for doing a bad job of it, so I'm going to let it go for now.
So...this isn't good-bye, just an exceptionally mushy post.
If I have to leave a parting thought here for a while, though, it would be this:
A few years back, I developed a crush on the charming and charismatic frontman of a British band called Art Brut. His lyrics blew me away. They were funny and ironic and seemed to expose every fear a 20-something young man could have--which are not that different from the fears a 40-something old woman has. I reached out to him as a friend on Myspace, that antique social medium that revolutionized my six-degrees-of-separation world. Now there could be one degree. To make a long story short, over the years I have met Eddie, hung out with Eddie, drunk vodka-and-apple-juice cocktails and bad wine with him. I have met [through email] Eddie's mom in England [she's exactly 2 months older than I am]. Two of Eddie's paintings hang in my house. He says that the story I've told him of how my preschooler misconstrued the words to one of his songs has become a part of his patter onstage.
Friday was Eddie's birthday. I emailed him my good wishes. He emailed me back his thanks. My point is--never doubt your heart. You can feel a connection through pictures, music, video....to someone you would never have met in your 'normal' life or perhaps will never meet outside of the internet. But the connection is no less real.
So...if you're reading this--I'm connecting with you. And isn't that cool?
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Showing posts with label my life. Show all posts
Monday, October 28, 2013
A Brit a Day [#1245]
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Monday, October 21, 2013
A Brit a Day [#1244]
James May, what am I going to do with almost 500 pictures of you saved? That really is the question.
I'm struggling to take my next step. ABAD evolved from a fiction writing blog to justify my love affair with the ease of clicking and saving anything and everything pictured online. It hasn't exactly taken on a life of its own--I get about 3 hits a day, I think. I've thought about moving the ops over to Tumblr where the ease of access might give me more viewers and thus more reason to continue, but most of these images come from Tumblr in the first place. So that would be pretty pointless.
If you really are out there, and you have an opinion, comment or email your thoughts. I think I'll take another week to think about it.
Saturday, October 19, 2013
A Brit a Day [#.......Sorry, I've gotten way behind...]
It's a bad sign that I have forgotten to post on my beloved blog for 2 days is a row. I'm going to take a little break to figure out what A Brit a Day should do next--and I mean a tiny little break, because I'm sure I'll be posting something James May-ish on Monday. Just try and stop me!
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Tuesday, October 8, 2013
A Brit a Day [#1235]
I'm tooting my own decidedly non-British horn in ABAD today because I am so excited that my Etsy digital download shop is finally open!
I'd love to sell a bunch of downloads of the big 10MB jpegs I have for sale there, but mainly, I'm just happy for everyone to be able to look at samples of the pictures. Go here to check it out--
http://www.etsy.com/shop/OurKodachromeYears
I only have about 2 dozen images up now, and I have a looooong way to go. I think I've mentioned this before--the images are from the slides I inherited from my dad, and a few of my own from Europe in the 80s. Eventually, I'll be concentrating on the ones my dad took for his personal use during his travels with the USDA. Some of them [mainly ones I haven't posted yet] have historical significance, IMO. I'll try to add 3-4 items a week to the shop.
I'd love to sell a bunch of downloads of the big 10MB jpegs I have for sale there, but mainly, I'm just happy for everyone to be able to look at samples of the pictures. Go here to check it out--
http://www.etsy.com/shop/OurKodachromeYears
I only have about 2 dozen images up now, and I have a looooong way to go. I think I've mentioned this before--the images are from the slides I inherited from my dad, and a few of my own from Europe in the 80s. Eventually, I'll be concentrating on the ones my dad took for his personal use during his travels with the USDA. Some of them [mainly ones I haven't posted yet] have historical significance, IMO. I'll try to add 3-4 items a week to the shop.
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Friday, October 4, 2013
A Brit a Day [#1230]
This is for Thursday.
I could use a look back at Desmond Hume from LOST in the worst possible way today. The dog [and I mean literally the dog, not my husband] has already gotten so excited that he tried to rip my jeans off. And it's only 0900.
Wednesday, October 2, 2013
A Brit a Day [#1229]
Today's Brit is my mother's stepfather, my Daddy Rex [far right], a native of Dunstable, England. He came to the US as a college student before the First World War and fought in that war for the US Army. In 1960, he married my grandmother, a month or two after I was born, and then became a delightful fixture in my life.
Rex is in many of the family pictures I have recently had converted to digital files. I'm opening a shop on Etsy to display my favorites and sell digital copies. My Etsy shop is going to be called Our Kodachrome Years--in the next few days I'll be posting a link here so you can check it out!
Saturday, September 28, 2013
A Brit a Day [#1225]
AMC has put me on a forced hiatus from the 'Breaking Bad' marathon--Season 5 reruns don's begin until late tonight. So in the meantime, I'll tell you that Wikipedia has once again given me an insight into an actor and his character with comments that Bryan Cranston has made about his childhood--
"My mom and dad were both broken people, and because of that, they were incapacitated as far as parenting. They weren't capable, and we lost the house in a foreclosure. We were kicked out."
Bryan Cranston is partly English on his father's side, so he qualifies as today's Brit. He is a huge inspiration to me since he got this 'role of a lifetime' when he was about my age. I can't wait for tomorrow night's finale. I really wish him well in his life after BB--can't hope for the same where Walter White is concerned.
Bryan Cranston in Wikipedia is here:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bryan_Cranston#Early_life
"My mom and dad were both broken people, and because of that, they were incapacitated as far as parenting. They weren't capable, and we lost the house in a foreclosure. We were kicked out."
Bryan Cranston is partly English on his father's side, so he qualifies as today's Brit. He is a huge inspiration to me since he got this 'role of a lifetime' when he was about my age. I can't wait for tomorrow night's finale. I really wish him well in his life after BB--can't hope for the same where Walter White is concerned.
Bryan Cranston in Wikipedia is here:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bryan_Cranston#Early_life
Saturday, September 7, 2013
A Brit a Day [#1204]
I know way too much about James May's personal garage--it has become sort of a fetish with me to find pictures of him in it on the internet. I haven't resorted to Google Street View yet, though. I'm not that bad.
Tuesday, September 3, 2013
A Brit a Day [#1200]
Today is ABAD's 1200th post, and more importantly, my elder child's first day of college. A couple of years ago, she cosplayed as Idris, the 'Doctor's Wife', for Comic-con--she was the best Idris anyone had ever seen. To commemorate, here's some Doctor Who 50th anniversary art from this year's Comic-con program.
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Thursday, August 29, 2013
A Brit a Day [#1195]
I'm back! On Monday, we celebrated my mom's 90th birthday in North Carolina. HIC visited his mom in Scotland earlier this summer as well. Here he is with his mom in a photo he shared on Instagram.
Tuesday, August 20, 2013
Monday, August 19, 2013
A Brit a Day [#1193]
Who doesn't love a man in a safety harness? James May mounts the Bridge of No Return on the 'Meccano' episode of his 'Toy Stories' series. My real-life husband and I watched it together last night. Bonding over basic engineering principles is always good.
Friday, August 16, 2013
A Brit a Day [#1190]
[Lovely photo editing here, especially the bottom one as that jacket started off red!--Not mine, I don't know how to do that stuff!]
I'm looking forward to seeing Tom Hiddleston in 'Coriolanus' via some sort of digital presentation at UCLA next February. My daughter is living up there now, and it will be a joy to see it with her. But a wider set of bookings has recently been released, and now the a performance will be shown in one of my local theatres a few days later!
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Wednesday, July 31, 2013
A Brit a Day [#1174]
My mother, who will be 90 years old on the 26th of next month, just told my daughter on the phone that Henry Cavill is the most attractive man she has ever seen. She told me, "If I'd been at Comic-con, I wouldn't have left until I'd seen him." Go Mom!
Tuesday, July 30, 2013
A Brit a Day [#1173]
Today is my daughter's 18th birthday. I remember what an influence the book 'The Little Prince' was for me around that age. Plus, my daughter loves the history of Europe in the second world war, and the book is essentially a study of the heart of an exiled poet. Says Wikipedia,
Saint-Exupéry, a laureate of several of France's highest literary awards and a reserve military pilot at the start of the Second World War, wrote and illustrated the manuscript while exiled in the United States after the Fall of France. He had travelled there on a personal mission to persuade its government to quickly enter the war against Nazi Germany. In the midst of personal upheavals and failing health he produced almost half of the writings he would be remembered for, including a tender tale of loneliness, friendship, love and loss, in the form of a young prince fallen to Earth.
I will make sure she reads it. But for today's post, what could be a more fitting piece of fan art than The Doctor as The Little Prince?
Wednesday, July 24, 2013
A Brit a Day [#1167]
Oh, Matt. My heart is breaking a little bit each day, I'm going to miss him so much. I've never wanted so much to stall the coming of Christmas.
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Monday, July 22, 2013
A Brit a Day [Special Edition]
[Not my picture, as you will learn below.]
OMG!: A comic-con story
First I want to say that I never totally believed any of you before, but it’s true—Ian is actually even better looking in person than he is in pictures! I didn’t believe you because I didn’t think it was possible!
So let me go back to last Friday. My son Robert and I got into the conference room where ‘The 100’ panel was to be held about 45 minutes early. The ‘Nikita’ panel was in full swing—boy, there was a lot of love in the room for that show!—so we were in for about a half hour of that. [Side note to sympathetic mom’s: My cunning plan to get there early was already backfiring as 12-year-old Robert was starting the ‘can we leave yets’ and his 3DS Distraction Device was not charged up because late last night his older sister unplugged it in order to charge her own. I WILL DEAL WITH HER LATER.]
After a brief pause between panels, the moderator for ‘The 100’ panel introduced the screening of the first episode, which was shown to us in its entirety. I thought it was great but not awesome—I liked it very, very much, but I didn’t love it with all my soul. By the time the viewing was over, though, even Robert was into it. His assessment was quite accurate, I thought—he said “first episodes are always a little boring” but he can’t wait to see the rest.
Then the lights came up and the cast was introduced one by one, Ian last—which meant, of course, that he was seated on the far side of the stage from where I was sitting. Robert and I had learned during ‘Nikita’, disappointingly, that our phones’ cameras weren’t worth a crap. So I just sat back and enjoyed. [I knew there would be plenty of good pictures online within the hour, anyway.] Ian’s hair was bouncy and lovely [first thing I noticed, naturally] and he was wearing a nifty plaid short sleeved shirt [with khaki shorts, I think]. Everything about him just looked….happy.
Since the episode was about 45 minutes long, the live panel had to be insanely short—about 15 minutes. As usual with these things, the moderator asked some pretty banal questions to get things rolling, and a few audience members got to ask questions too. One woman asked Ian and the lead actress, Eliza Taylor—who is Australian—to comment on having to act with an American accent. As context for this, it helps to know that in the episode, Eliza’s accent is so perfect, it was actually quite a shock to hear her speak in her native accent. And Ian’s American accent? Sorry, not as good as all that. But we knew that—it’s a work in progress.
Anyhow, Eliza said that it was not difficult for her because, before she was acting full time, she had been a dialect coach. Ian then joked, “Good, can you coach me then?” I got the impression that Ian’s less than perfect accent was common knowledge, because the panelists had a good laugh at that. He added, “You’ll save the producers lots of money.”
So that was about it. When the moderator wrapped it up, I watched to see if Ian was leaving immediately, and I saw that he was sticking around to do a few autographs. I turned to Robert and said, “We’re going over there now.” By the time I got near Ian, there was the usual skirmish between photographers and autograph seekers, but I held my ground. [Another side note: I don’t get autographs. To me, asking for an autograph is just an excuse to start a conversation with someone I really want to meet, so I’d rather start the conversation by saying something and having their eyes on my face instead of having their eyes focused on a piece of paper. But that’s just me.]
Then the room security said something like “You need to keep moving, people, these guys [meaning the cast, I guess] have gotta get going.” The photographers went away, presumably to be ready to catch the cast at the next venue where they would be appearing. This gave me a clear shot at Ian, so I caught his eye, walked up to him with my hand extended, and said, “Ian, I’m Jane, I’m one of the Sis--” and before I could say “-tahs,” he had my hand in his and had leant over the table to kiss my cheek!!!
It’s like he knew I was coming! [Big shout out to You Know Who You Are Sistah Kathy My Darling.] I have no idea what he said then, but I added, just to be sure he recognized my name, “We’ve communicated on the, uh, internet,” being too flustered to come up with the word ‘email.’ [snort] Anyway, he thanked me for coming, and I told him I couldn’t wait for the show because it was great, and then we all did indeed have to keep moving, so that was that. A woman behind me said something like “What a sweet man.” As it dawned on me what had just happened, I must have been glowing like a 200 watt bulb. I turned to Robert, and he was in awe of me. He told me later that at that moment I squealed, but I have no recollection of that. He was rewarded for his patience by getting to choose what we did next at Comic-con for the rest of the day.
OMG!: A comic-con story
First I want to say that I never totally believed any of you before, but it’s true—Ian is actually even better looking in person than he is in pictures! I didn’t believe you because I didn’t think it was possible!
So let me go back to last Friday. My son Robert and I got into the conference room where ‘The 100’ panel was to be held about 45 minutes early. The ‘Nikita’ panel was in full swing—boy, there was a lot of love in the room for that show!—so we were in for about a half hour of that. [Side note to sympathetic mom’s: My cunning plan to get there early was already backfiring as 12-year-old Robert was starting the ‘can we leave yets’ and his 3DS Distraction Device was not charged up because late last night his older sister unplugged it in order to charge her own. I WILL DEAL WITH HER LATER.]
After a brief pause between panels, the moderator for ‘The 100’ panel introduced the screening of the first episode, which was shown to us in its entirety. I thought it was great but not awesome—I liked it very, very much, but I didn’t love it with all my soul. By the time the viewing was over, though, even Robert was into it. His assessment was quite accurate, I thought—he said “first episodes are always a little boring” but he can’t wait to see the rest.
Then the lights came up and the cast was introduced one by one, Ian last—which meant, of course, that he was seated on the far side of the stage from where I was sitting. Robert and I had learned during ‘Nikita’, disappointingly, that our phones’ cameras weren’t worth a crap. So I just sat back and enjoyed. [I knew there would be plenty of good pictures online within the hour, anyway.] Ian’s hair was bouncy and lovely [first thing I noticed, naturally] and he was wearing a nifty plaid short sleeved shirt [with khaki shorts, I think]. Everything about him just looked….happy.
Since the episode was about 45 minutes long, the live panel had to be insanely short—about 15 minutes. As usual with these things, the moderator asked some pretty banal questions to get things rolling, and a few audience members got to ask questions too. One woman asked Ian and the lead actress, Eliza Taylor—who is Australian—to comment on having to act with an American accent. As context for this, it helps to know that in the episode, Eliza’s accent is so perfect, it was actually quite a shock to hear her speak in her native accent. And Ian’s American accent? Sorry, not as good as all that. But we knew that—it’s a work in progress.
Anyhow, Eliza said that it was not difficult for her because, before she was acting full time, she had been a dialect coach. Ian then joked, “Good, can you coach me then?” I got the impression that Ian’s less than perfect accent was common knowledge, because the panelists had a good laugh at that. He added, “You’ll save the producers lots of money.”
So that was about it. When the moderator wrapped it up, I watched to see if Ian was leaving immediately, and I saw that he was sticking around to do a few autographs. I turned to Robert and said, “We’re going over there now.” By the time I got near Ian, there was the usual skirmish between photographers and autograph seekers, but I held my ground. [Another side note: I don’t get autographs. To me, asking for an autograph is just an excuse to start a conversation with someone I really want to meet, so I’d rather start the conversation by saying something and having their eyes on my face instead of having their eyes focused on a piece of paper. But that’s just me.]
Then the room security said something like “You need to keep moving, people, these guys [meaning the cast, I guess] have gotta get going.” The photographers went away, presumably to be ready to catch the cast at the next venue where they would be appearing. This gave me a clear shot at Ian, so I caught his eye, walked up to him with my hand extended, and said, “Ian, I’m Jane, I’m one of the Sis--” and before I could say “-tahs,” he had my hand in his and had leant over the table to kiss my cheek!!!
It’s like he knew I was coming! [Big shout out to You Know Who You Are Sistah Kathy My Darling.] I have no idea what he said then, but I added, just to be sure he recognized my name, “We’ve communicated on the, uh, internet,” being too flustered to come up with the word ‘email.’ [snort] Anyway, he thanked me for coming, and I told him I couldn’t wait for the show because it was great, and then we all did indeed have to keep moving, so that was that. A woman behind me said something like “What a sweet man.” As it dawned on me what had just happened, I must have been glowing like a 200 watt bulb. I turned to Robert, and he was in awe of me. He told me later that at that moment I squealed, but I have no recollection of that. He was rewarded for his patience by getting to choose what we did next at Comic-con for the rest of the day.
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Sunday, July 21, 2013
A Brit a Day [#1164]
Saturday, July 20, 2013
A Brit a Day [#1163]
It is a pleasure to attend the same event with these wonderful, talented people, even if I didn't get to see them. It's just nice knowing they are here in my city.
A Brit a Day [#1162]
OOPS! I forgot to post yesterday because I was busy at Comic-con doing things like, oh, meeting Henry Ian Cusick!!--I'll give that amazing experience its own separate post later....
Anyhoo, this post is for Friday, and the internet is all aflutter because some people are 100% certain that they believe this fella ^ will be at Comic-con today. People have been in line since 6 o'clock last night for a panel that that starts at 6 o'clock tonight that he will probably be involved in. I haven't seen a single picture of him in San Diego on Tumblr yet, so I'm a tad skeptical, but it doesn't matter either way, because I'm not getting in that line. My only hope is to see him just walking around the convention center like a normal person. Right. And if he happens to be in the Nintendo Lounge or the XBox lounge while my son is playing video game demos and he sits down next to me while I'm on a comfy couch reading my Batman novel, all the better.
Anyhoo, this post is for Friday, and the internet is all aflutter because some people are 100% certain that they believe this fella ^ will be at Comic-con today. People have been in line since 6 o'clock last night for a panel that that starts at 6 o'clock tonight that he will probably be involved in. I haven't seen a single picture of him in San Diego on Tumblr yet, so I'm a tad skeptical, but it doesn't matter either way, because I'm not getting in that line. My only hope is to see him just walking around the convention center like a normal person. Right. And if he happens to be in the Nintendo Lounge or the XBox lounge while my son is playing video game demos and he sits down next to me while I'm on a comfy couch reading my Batman novel, all the better.
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